Tuesday, 14 October 2025

The perils of favouritism: the quiet cost of being the unfavoured

In a quiet village nestled among rolling hills and whispering forests, there stood an aging mansion that had borne witness to generations of family history. Its walls, once vibrant with laughter and love, now seemed to carry the weight of unspoken grievances and silent discord. The family that inhabited it had long been divided - not by overt conflict, but by a subtle, insidious sway of favoritism that tainted even the most innocent of moments.

There were five children, born from the same parents, yet their destinies and treatment diverged sharply. The eldest, a boy of earnest temperament and unwavering resolve, grew up believing he was the cornerstone of the family. His diligence was evident; he often worked tirelessly in the fields, managing the estate with quiet competence. But what he did not realize - what would remain hidden from his understanding for many years - was that he was, in truth, the least favored of all.

Behind closed doors, the parents harbored a different truth. They, in their twilight years, secretly preferred the others - those who, with their contrasting temperaments, seemed to embody the qualities they admired most. The second child, a girl of gentle disposition and delicate sensibilities, was their confidante, their comfort in times of turmoil. The third, a boy full of exuberance and charm, was their favorite for his vivacity and ability to entertain. The fourth, pragmatic and shrewd, was their trusted advisor in matters of inheritance and wealth. The youngest, a curious and lively girl, was adored for her innocence and bright spirit.

From the beginning, this favoritism manifested subtly. When the parents discussed the estate, the eldest’s efforts went unrecognized; his sacrifices, unacknowledged. Meanwhile, the other children received tokens of their parents’ affection - small gifts, words of praise, and a sense of being cherished. The eldest, unaware of this differential treatment, continued to work hard, believing his efforts would one day garner the love he lacked.

As years passed, the division of land and assets reflected the invisible biases at play. When the parents finally decided to divide their estate, the eldest received a modest portion, the smallest among the siblings. The second, the favored daughter, received a generous share; the third, the lively boy, inherited a substantial territory; the pragmatic fourth was entrusted with a powerful segment of the estate; and the youngest girl received a small, but meaningful, inheritance.

The eldest, naive to the undercurrents of favoritism, accepted his lot with quiet dignity. He labored tirelessly, tending to the land, caring for the animals, and managing the household. His siblings, aware of the disparities, often watched him with a mixture of guilt and admiration. But he remained oblivious, believing that his hard work and sincerity would eventually earn him their love.

Time, however, revealed the true nature of the familial bonds. The favored children, despite their apparent privileges, did not always reciprocate the filial duties. The girl who was most cherished grew distant in her adolescence, her affection waning amid the distractions of her own pursuits. The lively boy’s exuberance often led him astray, neglecting his responsibilities and, at times, forgetting his parents altogether. The pragmatic sibling, too, became consumed with wealth and power, often placing material concerns above familial bonds.

Meanwhile, the eldest’s unwavering dedication persisted. He remained steadfast, caring for his aging parents, often sacrificing his own happiness for their comfort. But his efforts went unrecognized, his sacrifices unseen. His parents, caught in the web of their own favoritism, failed to realize that their unwitting neglect was carving deep wounds into the fabric of their progeny.

In their final years, the parents’ health declined precipitously. The eldest, exhausted but resolute, continued to serve them, bearing the weight of guilt and love. The other children, caught up in their pursuits, visited sporadically, if at all—some out of obligation, others out of forgetfulness. The eldest’s quiet devotion contrasted sharply with their superficial gestures, highlighting the emotional chasm that had grown between them.

One evening, as the sun dipped below the horizon, the parents called their children to their bedside. The old mother, her voice frail but filled with a lifetime of regret, spoke of her remorse for the favoritism that had sown discord. She expressed her wish that her children forgive each other and remember that love, not inheritance, was the true legacy. The father, too, echoed her sentiments, urging them to cherish the bonds of kinship above all.

The eldest listened patiently, unaware of the depths of his parents’ biases. He believed himself to be loved equally, unknowing that his sacrifices had been taken for granted. His siblings, too, were caught in their own complex web of emotions - guilt, resentment, and regret - yet none dared to confront the silent truths.

After their passing, the estate was divided according to the parents’ wishes. The eldest inherited a modest plot, his labor and loyalty unrecognized in the distribution. The favored children, meanwhile, received their shares - some substantial, some modest - but the emotional scars of favoritism and neglect remained hidden beneath the veneer of wealth and inheritance.

Years went by, and the family’s story became a quiet legend among the villagers - a tale of how favoritism, even when concealed, could corrode the bonds of kinship. The eldest, though humble and steadfast, carried the silent burden of unacknowledged love. The others, despite their privileges, grappled with guilt and distance in their own ways. The society remained silent witness to this drama often reflecting on the similar patterns of mishap happening in their own households as well. Some expertly hid these things in their families boasting about their 'unity' and 'equality' to satisfy their own ego. 

In the end, it was evident to all that no inheritance could compensate for the loss of genuine affection. The true legacy lay in the unseen bonds of love, respect, and understanding - gifts that could not be measured in land or wealth but only in the hearts of those who truly cared. And so, the story served as a quiet reminder: that favoritism, when left unchecked, shadows even the most seemingly harmonious of families, and that the greatest inheritance is the love we nurture and give freely.

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